First off, let me start this post by saying thank you to everyone. Your advice has all been wonderful. I stayed mad for a while after writing my rant. And to be honest, I'm still a little ticked, but I'm level headed again and calm. I'm back to normal I guess you could say. I've had time to sleep on it and calm down and I'm not going to do anything more than what I'm already doing, trying to work with the lawyer to get all of this handled. Once it's all over, and I really hope it's over soon, I'll cut all ties with that family and never have to deal with them again.
Now that's not to say that I won't do a little spell to speed the process up. I'm considering doing one that will make the lawyer call me back. The two times I've tried speaking to her about this I've gotten her paralegals and they took my name and phone number and said she would call me back. Daddy had already spoken to her about all this so I thought this would be a simple matter of just building on what Daddy had already told her. Then she would be able to call the broker for that account, tell him she represents me and get this crap done. It seems really easy. If the account is in my name (which it is) that should be all that's needed. Even if it went to court no judge in his right mind would let the case carry on longer than to look and see that the account is in my name, is being kept from me, and go "Um stupid, give her control of her account or go to jail." I really don't think this is a complicated legal thing. I don't think it would even take a whole lot of her time. I mean, how long does it take to make a phone call? I seriously think that's all it would take to get this all taken care of. But of course, I'm not a lawyer. I don't see how there could be a lot of complicated crap to it, but maybe there's something I don't see.
Anyway, I just wanted to tell everyone that I'm calm. I won't be doing anything mean to that side of my family (the grandfather especially) even though it would be nice. I'm just not willing to risk it. The price of taking that road will probably be too high of a cost for me. Especially since everything is already working out as is. Thank you for listening to me, and thank you for caring. I read each and every comment that you guys left and I took all of your advice to heart. I greatly appreciate that you guys took time out to read my extremely long rant, and then respond to it in kind. Bright blessings to you all.